我不能接受就是不能，不是说你说得不对，但是我这种个性就是接受不了。当我接受不了，我只想要远离它。的确，这样的人世上有很多，但是不是每个人 都可以接受，忍耐它的。
而且，我不是没有尝试过，而是到了忍无可忍的情况了。有很多事可能你会觉得还好吧，但是我会觉得那是我完全不能接受。
要到忍无可忍的情况不是一件事造成的，而是很多很多事结合的。一天两天也不足，是长久累月的。
累了，想躲一下，想逃离一下，不能吗？
29/11/2015
12/06/2015
What is true love?
Quite a few of my friends around me are now in the stage where they are in a relationship or just ended their relationship. Many of those who just ended their relationship keep talking that they miss their ex when their ex are that kind of people who are so shitty. Those who are in a relationship then keep complaining that he or she keep doing this or doing that that displease them.
It made me suddenly thought of something that my class have discussed once quite sometime ago. Many of them did not believe in true love. I remember one of my friend said to me, there is nothing in the world called true love. But this situation changed now. The classmates that I have now keep thinking that there is, and they keep thinking about their ex, or maybe put too much effort on their bf/gf rather than their friends sometimes.
For me, I do believe that there is love, but not that kind of "You die, I die" type. Rather, I believe love is something that is build on friendship, it's a feeling that require friendship to stay strong. If you do not feel comfortable in the relationship anymore, I do think you should just leave it aside. Everyone need their own personal space, which the other should give occasionally otherwise, just like a friendship, no one will like a person who keep intruding to your own personal things that you don't want someone else to know.
Maybe for now, when we are still not at the stage of getting married, it may still be okay to believe so much in true love. But believe is one thing, doing so is another. We must still stay at our own believes rather than follow blindly whatever he or she ask us to do. It is not something that we should be doing.
At this age, just do whatever you like and want, but remember to keep strong on your own believes and not to stray too far from it. Enjoy Life!
It made me suddenly thought of something that my class have discussed once quite sometime ago. Many of them did not believe in true love. I remember one of my friend said to me, there is nothing in the world called true love. But this situation changed now. The classmates that I have now keep thinking that there is, and they keep thinking about their ex, or maybe put too much effort on their bf/gf rather than their friends sometimes.
For me, I do believe that there is love, but not that kind of "You die, I die" type. Rather, I believe love is something that is build on friendship, it's a feeling that require friendship to stay strong. If you do not feel comfortable in the relationship anymore, I do think you should just leave it aside. Everyone need their own personal space, which the other should give occasionally otherwise, just like a friendship, no one will like a person who keep intruding to your own personal things that you don't want someone else to know.
Maybe for now, when we are still not at the stage of getting married, it may still be okay to believe so much in true love. But believe is one thing, doing so is another. We must still stay at our own believes rather than follow blindly whatever he or she ask us to do. It is not something that we should be doing.
At this age, just do whatever you like and want, but remember to keep strong on your own believes and not to stray too far from it. Enjoy Life!
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