Quite a few of my friends around me are now in the stage where they are in a relationship or just ended their relationship. Many of those who just ended their relationship keep talking that they miss their ex when their ex are that kind of people who are so shitty. Those who are in a relationship then keep complaining that he or she keep doing this or doing that that displease them.
It made me suddenly thought of something that my class have discussed once quite sometime ago. Many of them did not believe in true love. I remember one of my friend said to me, there is nothing in the world called true love. But this situation changed now. The classmates that I have now keep thinking that there is, and they keep thinking about their ex, or maybe put too much effort on their bf/gf rather than their friends sometimes.
For me, I do believe that there is love, but not that kind of "You die, I die" type. Rather, I believe love is something that is build on friendship, it's a feeling that require friendship to stay strong. If you do not feel comfortable in the relationship anymore, I do think you should just leave it aside. Everyone need their own personal space, which the other should give occasionally otherwise, just like a friendship, no one will like a person who keep intruding to your own personal things that you don't want someone else to know.
Maybe for now, when we are still not at the stage of getting married, it may still be okay to believe so much in true love. But believe is one thing, doing so is another. We must still stay at our own believes rather than follow blindly whatever he or she ask us to do. It is not something that we should be doing.
At this age, just do whatever you like and want, but remember to keep strong on your own believes and not to stray too far from it. Enjoy Life!
